Saturday, July 10, 2010

What we miss/what we don't miss

I've thought about doing this post for awhile, so here goes: I'll start with what we don't miss about our time in Ohio, because it's much shorter than what we do miss.

What we won't miss:
-The Jay-walkers.
If you've ever been there, you know what I'm talking about - those people who don't even look for cars and then they saunter across the street like they have all the time in the world. There have been so many times where I've seen drivers slam on their brakes so they don't run over any of them. I've even been given dirty looks from these people while I'm sitting in my car waiting for them to stroll by.
-The driving.
The traffic lights have the worst timing I've ever seen! And, the signs that say "No right turn on red light." I can understand if there are a bunch of streets that intersect, but at a four-way stop?? Really? And, I don't know who designed the street layout, but I'd like to meet them and ask what they were smoking when they did it. After years of being in Cleveland, I'd still get turned around if I wasn't careful, and I'd end up going in the complete opposite direction than I thought. And the road conditions were terrible after every winter. I thought I was going to lose our van in some of those potholes.
- The grayness.
Being so near Lake Erie, we'd have a lot of gray skies, especially in the winter. I've never appreciated the sun so much as during our time there!
- The bugs.
Good riddance to slugs, grubs, and silverfish. Okay, not so much the silverfish - I've seen a couple here in Rochester, but not nearly as many. Never seen one? Lucky you. Here's a picture.


-The customer service.
Do they do employee training on being neglectful, or just plain rude?? If you haven't already seen it, look up "Bon Qui Qui at King Burger" on You Tube. With a very small number of exceptions, it pretty much sums up our 6 years there in Cleveland. It's hilarious.

What we will miss:
- Our insurance.
No monthly premiums, low co-pays. And, do you want to know how much it cost to have Brigham and Hudson? $50.00 each time. Maybe you didn't want to know; it might be depressing for you. I know it is for me now that we're having another baby with different insurance!
-Nature.


Ohio doesn't have the mountains and the ruggedness of the west, but I fell in love with all the trees, the green, and the lakes. I know that means having to deal with humidity, but I thought it was worth it. Also, there are so many things to see and do outside: the Shaker Lakes, North and South Chagrin Reservations, Nelsons Ledges, and too many others to mention.
-The Amish communities . . .
especially if you like cheese. We do. There's the best cheese factory down south in Berlin where you can get samples of 30+ different kinds of cheeses (including cream cheese fudge!). They also have yummy restaurants, beautiful farms, and great handmade toys, plus so much more that we never saw.
-Shaker Hardware.
I never thought I could love a hardware store, but I do! It was close to our house, so we'd run there whenever we needed something small. It's been owned forever by two brothers. The same people worked there the whole time we lived in Shaker Heights, and they were so friendly. Maybe I had a lost look on my face every time I walked in, but within a few minutes I always had someone asking if I needed help. And they actually knew what they were talking about! It's small, so there isn't a big selection of things, and it's a bit more expensive than Home Depot or Lowes, but I thought it was worth it.
-Our mechanic.
Tom at Alternative Car Care Solutions. I don't know that we'll ever find a place as good. They were honest, cheap, they knew what they were doing, and they didn't try and get us to get 10 other things "fixed" whenever we brought our van in for something. So, when they would actually suggest something, I knew it really needed to be done. I called one time to ask a question, and I felt like I was on "Click and Clack," because Tom said what he thought the problem was, then suggested something over the phone. I tried it, and it worked! It's a bit of a drive, down on Mayfield Rd., but if you have a Japanese made car (that's all they work on), it's totally worth the drive.
-All the pick-your-own fruit farms.
Patterson's for strawberries in June, Voytko farms for blueberries in July, Rosby's for raspberries in August and September, and Patterson's and Edy's for apples in the fall. L.O.V.E. it!
-Halloween.
Shaker Heights is the epitome of what Halloween should be. Crunchy leaves all over the place, houses totally decked out with spooky decorations, and people milling all over the sidewalks, trick-or-treating. And, we were lucky enough that all 6 Halloweens we had in Shaker, it was perfect weather.
-The Library.
I just about cried and hugged all the librarians on our last trip to the Shaker Library. Shaker has outrageous taxes, but this was one of the things I was happy to pay for. Family (and preschool, toddler, and baby) storytelling, huge playground, movie section that was better than any video store, free programs going on all the time, knit nights, book groups, author lectures, perfect setup in the children's section (which included puzzles, legos, play kitchen, and other toys), and the best summer reading program ever.
-Kirtland
. . . and all the other church historical sites close by. There really isn't more to say about that. It was wonderful.

I could never understand it when people would talk about how much they hated Cleveland, and how they couldn’t wait to get out of there. Sure, there are bad things about it, like any other city. And we learned pretty quickly about the neighborhoods to stay away from, especially at night. But those of you who are still there in Cleveland, don't waste your time dwelling on the negative parts of it! Take advantage of all the wonderful things about living there. You'll miss them when you're gone.

3 comments:

Summer said...

Oh, I just about cried reading your lists of things you miss about CLeveland! I feel the same way! Especially this time of year. Ohio in the Fall is like HEAVEN!

Carrie Anne said...

This is why we moved back!!!! I about cried when I went back to the library b/c I love it so much! With school being in we haven't gone nearly as much as I would like but I know soon...once I get past a few school things I am helping with...like the Pumpkin Affair!:) I have been so happy every single day here b/c all the perks outweigh any negatives. I adore this neighborhood...so many cool people who I meet on the way to/from school. I just love it! I hope you move back!! That would be so awesome!!!! Just throwing that out there.:)

Angie said...

What a great post...we are trying to soak it all in our last year! I keep trying to notice the beautiful trees and take mental pictures...we miss YOU!!!